How to react to the former?
Every girl from childhood dreams to meet hera beautiful prince with whom she will live happily until death does us part. However, in life, as a rule, not everything is as it is in a fairy tale. After the initial love passes, the beautiful prince begins to show flaws, which you previously could not notice. Or he finds fault with you.
There can be many reasons for the gap. But as a result, once a person close to you and dear to you becomes a stranger to you again. And here the question usually arises, how to communicate with the ex-boyfriend? Of course, you can not answer it unequivocally, because much depends on what kind of relationship you are connected with, how long you were together, whether you have common friends, etc. But we will try to give you a couple of the most general recommendations on this topic.
Let's stay friends
Many couples try to stay after the breakfriends and keep friendly relations. Some people succeed, but there are only a few examples. In fact, it is very difficult to sit and just communicate with a person who used to be almost the center of the universe. The greatest difficulties arise at the moment when one of these two has a new partner. Before agreeing to be a friend for your ex-boyfriend, make sure that you can adequately meet the fact that sooner or later he will have a new girlfriend.
Another situation, if it comes to the former husband. If you have a common child, you just have to maintain at least the appearance of a warm, friendly relationship. Otherwise, it can negatively affect the child. After all, regardless of the reason you could not get along together, your common child has nothing to do with it and is not guilty of anything. Why then does he have to suffer?
You're no longer my girlfriend, you're no longer my friend
Some couples fail to dispersein an amicable way. If one of the partners has severely offended or offended the feelings of his lover, the gap is accompanied by quarrels and scandals. In this case, many prefer to break off all sorts of contacts altogether and never again remember each other.
If you think that such a development optionevents will be most favorable for you, you can act accordingly. However, in practice this is not so easy. If you live in the same city, for sure, you will visit the same places or communicate with common acquaintances. And sooner or later your new meeting will certainly take place.
How to react to the former during an accidentalmeeting? If you suddenly met somewhere with a former guy, do not pretend that you did not notice him or that you are unfamiliar at all - it's silly. The simplest option is to politely say hello and wait for the reaction that follows. If he greets you and starts a dialogue with you, you can ask how he deals or ask him about some common acquaintances. Such polite dialogue will not oblige you to anything, but, in turn, will make it clear that you have already experienced your gap and are ready to move on.