What is a man?
If we abstract from the definition of the term"Man" as a biological being, one can treat this concept through a list of female stereotypes about truly masculine qualities. About how women see a strong sex, we'll talk further in our article.
Character of a man
The ages succeeded each other, but women persistently did notwished to part with the coveted image of the ideal man. And although people, society, various aspects of human life changed together with the years, the world itself, the "model" of a true man, seemed to always remain approximately the same.
Positive qualities of a man
Ask any lady what a man should be, which she would consider if not for an ideal, then for the closest possible miracle to him, you would hear the following:
- He is strong and brave. Since the time of the first people, the man was called upon to protect women and children from danger, to help them survive. Actually, even after several thousand years the woman still sees in the strong field defenders.
- He never cries. To cry is to be sentimental, to be weak in something. In addition, often tears mean regret, sadness, pain, disappointment. A true man - the winner, the hunter - should not experience the listed negative emotions, because he is confident in himself. So, and it is not supposed to cry.
- He is kind, generous and generous. The ideal man in the eyes of a woman is so strong that he can afford to be extremely honest, caring, selfless.
- He is a business and successful, provides a family. And again we are dealing with the legacy of "ancient people", in which men were responsible for the extraction of meat, the main nutritional product.
- He is smart. It is important for a woman to feel protected, and this wonderful sensation can be presented only by a more experienced, mature, intellectually developed partner.
Negative qualities of men
But speaking about the negative qualities of men, women in the majority will note the following:
- He constantly thinks about sex and can oftenchange. This stereotype is almost as old as the remains of dinosaurs found by scientists, since it comes from time immemorial of the primitive communal system. It was then that the conditions of life assumed the maximum polygamous views from a man.
- He does not like intelligent women. Here it would be more correct to say that a man does not like to feel foolish in the light of the brilliant intellect of his lady. So this stereotype is in some ways truthful.
- He does not understand women's psychology well. Perhaps, this statement is no less correct than the fact that it is difficult for a woman to decipher the male inner world.
- He is not able to maintain order in the house. Perhaps this is so, but he is always able to find another woman who will do it instead of him, so is it not better to close your eyes to this small flaw?
Of course, most of the listed stereotypes, as they usually are, are completely or partially erroneous. Nevertheless, many women sincerely continue to believe in them.
Appearance of a man
The answer to the question of what a dream man is,every woman will have her own. And often women fall in love with men, quite different from the ideal image, which they themselves imagined.
However, with regard to appearance, there are some common features that many ladies prefer to see in their partners.
- Height and weight. Many women like men who are taller and stronger than they. This, first, allows a woman to visually appear fragile, which, of course, is very advantageous. And secondly, it gives a subconscious level of a sense of security from a larger "male".
- Musculature. Most of the ladies find a well-developed body relief very seductive and beautiful. In particular, women are highly valued strong men's hands, which give out in the representative of the stronger sex endurance, the ability for physical labor, and also suggest the idea of a powerful defense. In this case, an over-pumped body can, on the contrary, cause extremely negative emotions.
- Clothes, appearance. For many women, it is important that the man looked neat, had a neat haircut, was scented with a good cologne.